Hi everyone!
It’s February, and almost everyone was thinking about Valentine’s Day flowers, cards, and candy. I think it’s great that we devote February to the special people in our lives, but what about the rest of the year?
Romance shouldn’t be reserved only for Valentine’s Day, birthdays, or an anniversary. Why should people wait for a special occasion to show someone they love that they care? Love can (and should) be expressed every chance you get.
Everyone has his or her definition of “romance.” Some people like to send mushy cards, while others are more practical. But however you define it, romance is more than giving flowers, buying a box of chocolates, or getting frisky in the bedroom. Romance is all about making tender, everyday gestures that let your partner know how much you love him or her.
They say “It’s the little things in life that count.” and I believe that’s true. A simple expression of love can go a long way to cheer someone up, make them feel special, and show you care. And let’s face it—everyone wants to feel loved and appreciated.
Sadly, all too often we fail to appreciate the people we have in our lives. Friends and family (and even pets) are taken for granted or pushed aside for more “important” things because we’re all so busy. We think we have all the time in the world and will talk to them or visit them “later”—but then we get distracted or busy with something else… and sometimes “later” never comes. Taking five minutes out of your day to show someone you love them will make a difference in your life—and in the other person’s life, too.
How can you add a little bit of love or romance to your relationship without going overboard? There are lots of fun ways to let your partner know you care. Let’s start with an easy one…
Take a walk together and hold hands (you can even watch the sun set or gaze at the stars). What’s romantic about taking a walk, you ask? It’s no big deal, right? Well, what if you knew it would be the last walk you two ever took? How would your perspective change?
You can use a seemingly ordinary walk to talk about your dreams, hopes, desires, goals, or even your problems at work. (Venting to your partner isn’t very romantic, but being a trustworthy listener is an excellent quality.)
This February, why not show the people around you how much you value them and your relationship? Tell your parent, child, sibling, favorite aunt, or best friend why they are special, write them a love note, surprise them with a day out or concert tickets, or just spend time talking, having fun, and making memories.
Valentine’s Day is the perfect time to start a new, year-round tradition of showing your loved ones how much you care. Take a few moments to share the love in your heart, and cherish every day you have together.
Until next time, Kelli.
Kelli A. Wilkins is an award-winning author who has published more than 100 short stories, 20+ romance novels, and 6 mystery/horror ebooks. Her romances span many genres and settings, and she likes to scare readers with her horror and mystery stories. She is also the author of two non-fiction books, Romance Every Weekend: 104 Fun Ways to Express Your Love and Journaling Every Week: 52 Topics to Get You Writing. Visit her website/blog: www.KelliWilkins.com for a full title list, book summaries, and social media links.
They say “It’s the little things in life that count.” and I believe that’s true. A simple expression of love can go a long way to cheer someone up, make them feel special, and show you care. And let’s face it—everyone wants to feel loved and appreciated.
Sadly, all too often we fail to appreciate the people we have in our lives. Friends and family (and even pets) are taken for granted or pushed aside for more “important” things because we’re all so busy. We think we have all the time in the world and will talk to them or visit them “later”—but then we get distracted or busy with something else… and sometimes “later” never comes. Taking five minutes out of your day to show someone you love them will make a difference in your life—and in the other person’s life, too.
How can you add a little bit of love or romance to your relationship without going overboard? There are lots of fun ways to let your partner know you care. Let’s start with an easy one…
Take a walk together and hold hands (you can even watch the sun set or gaze at the stars). What’s romantic about taking a walk, you ask? It’s no big deal, right? Well, what if you knew it would be the last walk you two ever took? How would your perspective change?
You can use a seemingly ordinary walk to talk about your dreams, hopes, desires, goals, or even your problems at work. (Venting to your partner isn’t very romantic, but being a trustworthy listener is an excellent quality.)
This February, why not show the people around you how much you value them and your relationship? Tell your parent, child, sibling, favorite aunt, or best friend why they are special, write them a love note, surprise them with a day out or concert tickets, or just spend time talking, having fun, and making memories.
Valentine’s Day is the perfect time to start a new, year-round tradition of showing your loved ones how much you care. Take a few moments to share the love in your heart, and cherish every day you have together.
Until next time, Kelli.
Kelli A. Wilkins is an award-winning author who has published more than 100 short stories, 20+ romance novels, and 6 mystery/horror ebooks. Her romances span many genres and settings, and she likes to scare readers with her horror and mystery stories. She is also the author of two non-fiction books, Romance Every Weekend: 104 Fun Ways to Express Your Love and Journaling Every Week: 52 Topics to Get You Writing. Visit her website/blog: www.KelliWilkins.com for a full title list, book summaries, and social media links.
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